I have never been what you would call a slender person. For most of my life I have struggled with my weight. I can trace the beginning of my weight problems back to the summer between 3rd and 4th grade. As summer break began, I started to develop stiffness in my legs. They never were sure what the problem was but thought it was either rheumatic fever or a reaction to a rubella shot.
As a result, I spent most of the next 9 months in bed. For a 10 year old boy who was used to running around playing ball all summer, to be stuck in bed was awful. There was nothing to do but eat and watch television. I couldn't even walk. My father would have to carry me to the car to take me to the doctor. By the time it was all over, I had gained a bunch of weight and my muscles had atrophied to the point that I had to learn how to walk again.
When I went back to school, I was no longer an average looking kid. I was fat and wearing husky sized clothes. Add to that having to get glasses and it was a tough time for me. Eventually, I went through a growth spurt and grew taller. My weight stayed the same, so I was able to slim down a good bit as I entered junior high and high school. Though slimmer, I was never thin. I guess you could describe me as sturdy.
During those days and college, I became a lot more active. I participated in a lot of sports and did a lot of weight lifting. All of that activity kept me in pretty good shape, though I never really ate right. I just felt like it afforded me the opportunity to eat and drink what I want. Eventually, after college, I got my first 9-5 job. My activity level decreased, and I started to gain weight again. I think I gained 30 pounds that first year.
The problem was that as time went by, my responsibilities grew at work. I became less active overall but kept the same eating habits. So the weight started to pile on. It used to amaze me to see former professional athletes gain a bunch of weight after they retire. They kept the same calorie intake, but didn't have the output. Let's face it, even Michael Phelps would look like Jabba the Hut if he stopped training kept eating like he does now.
A couple months ago, I decided to take the plunge and start a new was against the battle of the bulge. I decided to once again use the MyFitnessPal app on my phone to keep track of my calories. I decided to set a goal of losing one pound per week to calculate the amount of calories that I could consume each day to lose weight. However, I also have made a conscientious decision to try to stay far enough below my goal to try to lose a little more each week.
I set for myself an overall goal to lose 60 pounds. This would be enough to put my BMI into the healthy range. Whenever one takes on the task of trying to achieve a monumental goal it helps to break the goal into smaller individual goals. My first goal was to get my weight down to where my BMI was under 30 so that I would no longer be clinically obese. That goal was achieved when I weight in this morning. Now I am just overweight. It is a nice psychological barrier.
My next goal is a little bit closer to hitting than the first one was. I needed to lose 21 pounds to get my weight out of the obese range. My next goal is to get my weight down to under 200 pounds, so I only have about nine pounds to go. Beyond that, I have either one or two goals remaining and I reserve the right to adjust them somewhat.
I feel as if 180 pounds would be a nice healthy weight for me. It is definitely much better for me than the 230 pounds I was sporting six weeks ago. Technically, according to the BMI charts, 175 pounds would be the upper range of the healthy range for my height. That is why I have set 170 pounds as my initial overall goal. So far it is going well. I just hope that I can keep with it and then keep it off when I get to where I want to be.
Just some of my random thoughts on news, events, or anything else that happens to strike my fancy. Enjoy your visit and feel free to comment
Saturday, June 30, 2012
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Big Day for Political Junkies
| Eric Holder - Caricature (Photo credit: DonkeyHotey) |
It probably won't come as a big surprise that I do not hold the Attorney General in very high regard. Racebaiters and liberals would probably accuse my opposition to Holder, like my opposition to President Obama, due to the fact that he has a darker pigmentation that I do. Sadly, that tired rhetoric from the left is getting old. Nope, the fact of the matter is that everything Holder stands for, and for that matter Obama, is in complete anathema to my personal beliefs.
So far, there is at least one House Democrat who has already come out and said that he plans to vote in favor of holding Holder in contempt. That would be Utah Representative Jim Matheson. In addition, House Minority Whip Steny Hoyer, who happens to be my Representative in Congress, said he expects that there will be other Democrats to vote in favor of the contempt citation. As an aside, I hold Hoyer (who happens to be white) in the same disdain as Holder and Obama, so my beef is clearly ideological and not racial, but I digress. I am glad to see that there will be some bipartisan support of the contempt citation as it will give it a bit more teeth.
| Washington DC: United States Supreme Court (Photo credit: wallyg) |
Personally, I can not understand why anybody who can get health insurance wouldn't want to have it. When I first started working and became eligible for my own health insurance through work, I jumped at the opportunity, even though I was still a minor and on my parents policy. Even though I was young and healthy, I also played a lot of sports and had my fair share of injuries. I wanted to have insurance to cover the costs of any x-rays and what not. Still, the Libertarian, less government side of me bristles at the thought of the government dictating to me that I have to buy something and the type of product I must buy. I'd prefer to keep my liberty rather than turn it over to the government.
Related articles
- NBC/WSJ poll: More would be pleased if health law ruled unconstitutional (firstread.msnbc.msn.com)
- House Dem breaks from party, plans to vote for Holder contempt (dailycaller.com)
- Steny Hoyer Indicates Contempt Vote Will Be Bipartisan (nicedeb.wordpress.com)
Monday, June 25, 2012
Music Monday-Hootie & the Blowfish "Time"
I have featured the solo work of Darius Rucker as Music Monday picks, but it occurred to me that I haven't featured his work with Hootie & the Blowfish. So, here we go.
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Come join Music Monday and share your songs with us. Rules are simple. Leave ONLY the ACTUAL LINK POST here and grab the code below and place it at your blog entry. You can grab this code at LadyJava's Lounge Please note these links are STRICTLY for Music Monday participants only. All others will be deleted without prejudice. PS: Because of spamming purposes, the linky will be closed on Thursday of each week at midnight, Malaysian Time. Thank you!
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Sunday, June 24, 2012
Cowboy Monkey Rodeo
I have been looking forward to this day since I first saw it on the promotional calendar for my hometown Bowie Baysox. Today was Country Day at the ball park and as part of the entertainment between innings the Cowboy Monkey Rodeo was on display.
Let's face it. I am a guy. I like sports, and like most guys, I like monkeys. If you want to have a hit commercial during the Super Bowl, you have monkeys in the ad. Now, combine baseball and monkeys and you have the ultimate in guy entertainment.
Oh yeah, and there was also a baseball game which the Baysox won handily. A great day at the ballpark.

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Let's face it. I am a guy. I like sports, and like most guys, I like monkeys. If you want to have a hit commercial during the Super Bowl, you have monkeys in the ad. Now, combine baseball and monkeys and you have the ultimate in guy entertainment.
Oh yeah, and there was also a baseball game which the Baysox won handily. A great day at the ballpark.

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Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Time for June Break
Tomorrow is the end of the current school year for our son. My wife will be heading out in the early morning to go pick him up and bring him home for one of his longer breaks, two weeks. He is set to head back to school on July 5th, which will allow a nice visit home.
The program that my son is on with his school is essentially a 12-month program with the new year starting in July. The July session usually runs about 5 or 6 weeks and then a second summer break in August. During the August break we will take our annual trek out to Ocean City.
With the beginning of this June break, I will be taking a rare weekend off of my weekend pizza delivery gig as we have a lot of activities planned over the next two weeks. Friday night is Autism Awareness night at the Bowie Baysox stadium. It is one of the nights we make sure to attend during the season.
Saturday night, my in-laws are having a party to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary. My son is looking forward to attending the party. I am just hoping that he will be well behaved. Normally at events like this we have to worry about keeping him entertained.
Sunday, we have another Baysox game on the calendar. As soon as the promotional calendar was released and I saw Sunday's promotion I knew that we would have to attend the game. Sunday is country day and will feature the Cowboy Monkey Rodeo.
I googled Cowboy Monkey Rodeo and discovered that they have monkeys dress up like cowboys and ride dogs around like horses. Let's face it, as a guy, you just can't beat a day of baseball and monkeys. I will definitely be trying to get some good photos for the blog.
In addition to all the fun stuff we have planned, we also have a lot of other not so fun things we have to take care of before he returns to school. Each year, he has to have a check up from his doctor and a form filled out from his dentist. Both of those should be an adventure. We will see how the next two weeks impact the amount of time I spend blogging.
The program that my son is on with his school is essentially a 12-month program with the new year starting in July. The July session usually runs about 5 or 6 weeks and then a second summer break in August. During the August break we will take our annual trek out to Ocean City.
With the beginning of this June break, I will be taking a rare weekend off of my weekend pizza delivery gig as we have a lot of activities planned over the next two weeks. Friday night is Autism Awareness night at the Bowie Baysox stadium. It is one of the nights we make sure to attend during the season.
Saturday night, my in-laws are having a party to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary. My son is looking forward to attending the party. I am just hoping that he will be well behaved. Normally at events like this we have to worry about keeping him entertained.
Sunday, we have another Baysox game on the calendar. As soon as the promotional calendar was released and I saw Sunday's promotion I knew that we would have to attend the game. Sunday is country day and will feature the Cowboy Monkey Rodeo.
I googled Cowboy Monkey Rodeo and discovered that they have monkeys dress up like cowboys and ride dogs around like horses. Let's face it, as a guy, you just can't beat a day of baseball and monkeys. I will definitely be trying to get some good photos for the blog.
In addition to all the fun stuff we have planned, we also have a lot of other not so fun things we have to take care of before he returns to school. Each year, he has to have a check up from his doctor and a form filled out from his dentist. Both of those should be an adventure. We will see how the next two weeks impact the amount of time I spend blogging.
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autism,
Bowie Baysox,
Cowboy Monkey Rodeo,
Parenting,
School
Monday, June 18, 2012
Music Monday-Phil Stacey "Hard to Get"
Just prior to his untimely death in an automobile accident, Rich Mullins had recorded some very rough demos that would later be released as a 2-CD set entitled The Jesus Record. One CD was the rough demos of Rich performing the songs. The second CD was several of Christian Contemporary Music's biggest starts performing the songs.
Even though I am not currently involved with a church, I still like to listen to Christian music and read Christian books. Whenever I feel like things are particularly closing in around me or I just feel small in the face of everything, there are two Rich Mullins songs that become a prayer for me.
The first one is Hold Me Jesus which I featured in the Music Monday post here. The second one is this song from The Jesus Record, performed by Phil Stacey. The lyrics are unbelievably moving.
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Even though I am not currently involved with a church, I still like to listen to Christian music and read Christian books. Whenever I feel like things are particularly closing in around me or I just feel small in the face of everything, there are two Rich Mullins songs that become a prayer for me.
The first one is Hold Me Jesus which I featured in the Music Monday post here. The second one is this song from The Jesus Record, performed by Phil Stacey. The lyrics are unbelievably moving.
Come join Music Monday and share your songs with us. Rules are simple. Leave ONLY the ACTUAL LINK POST here and grab the code below and place it at your blog entry. You can grab this code at LadyJava's Lounge Please note these links are STRICTLY for Music Monday participants only. All others will be deleted without prejudice. PS: Because of spamming purposes, the linky will be closed on Thursday of each week at midnight, Malaysian Time. Thank you!
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Sunday, June 17, 2012
Happy Father's Day!
II would like to take this opportunity to wish all of the dads out there a happy Father's Day. Today is my 18th Father's Day as a dad. I have to confess that I am a little depressed this morning since my son is away at school, and I will not have the opportunity to see him. We could go out for a visit, but since he is coming home in a couple of days, we decided to wait until Thursday.
One of the things that crossed my mind this morning as I was moping around missing my son was the night that he was born. I remember it well. The entire time my wife was pregnant, I was going with her to her appointments. I couldn't wait to be a father. On April 6th, 1994, my wife received a phone call around 10pm from her OB/GYN. He was at the hospital delivering another baby and asked my wife if she was ready to have her baby. She said she felt fine.
I went to sleep shortly after she hung up from that phone call. A few hours later, around 1am or so, my wife woke me up. She told me that she thought that her water broke. We left the house and headed to the hospital. On route, we encountered a heavy rain storm and I had to have the windshield wipers on high. We arrived at the hospital around 2am and headed to the emergency room. An initial examination confirmed that her water had broken but that our son had not dropped into position for delivery.
They took us up to a room on the maternity wing of the hospital and had my wife rest in bed. We were told that they wanted to have us wait for a while to see if our son would drop into position on his own, otherwise they might have to induce labor. After a few hours, they determined that they were going to have to induce labor as my son had decided he didn't want to leave the warmth and comfort of the womb to enter the cold cruel world on the outside.
As they set everything up for the pitocin IV, they asked my wife if she wanted to have an epidural. She replied in the affirmative. Shortly after the IV began, she started to have some contractions. However, they must have set the initial drip too high as she started to have contractions that were much too quick and much too hard. They slowed the drip down to a more manageable level. My wife was even able to get a few hours sleep, but I was too keyed up to get any rest.
As evening rolled around, it was time to get serious about the delivery. Finally, my wife was suitably dilated and was ready to enter the pushing stage. I did my best to try to be a supportive helper during the delivery. Like Bill Cosby, I was the cheerleader, "Push him out, shove him out, way out!" In spite of our requests to not have anybody come up to the hospital since we did not know how long we would be, my entire family was in the waiting room. Finally, around 9pm, our son came into the world.
The entire time that my wife was pregnant, we did not want to know the sex of our baby. Every sonogram, they asked if we wanted to know, each time we said no. I honestly did not care if we had a boy or a girl at the time. We had names picked out for either event. Our baby's bedroom was painted light green with teddy bears to be gender neutral. However, I confess, that when the doctor told us we had a baby boy, my chest stuck out a little further than I anticipated.
After he was cleaned up and my wife was able to rest a bit, my family came in to see us. My son was the first grandchild of my parents. After they left, I visited a bit with my wife and son until she was ready to go to sleep. I headed home and stopped by Grace's Fortune in Bowie to pick up an order of Kung Pao Chicken. Exhausted, I hit the bed and slept. I have been exhausted ever since, but it has been worth it.
One of the things that crossed my mind this morning as I was moping around missing my son was the night that he was born. I remember it well. The entire time my wife was pregnant, I was going with her to her appointments. I couldn't wait to be a father. On April 6th, 1994, my wife received a phone call around 10pm from her OB/GYN. He was at the hospital delivering another baby and asked my wife if she was ready to have her baby. She said she felt fine.
I went to sleep shortly after she hung up from that phone call. A few hours later, around 1am or so, my wife woke me up. She told me that she thought that her water broke. We left the house and headed to the hospital. On route, we encountered a heavy rain storm and I had to have the windshield wipers on high. We arrived at the hospital around 2am and headed to the emergency room. An initial examination confirmed that her water had broken but that our son had not dropped into position for delivery.
They took us up to a room on the maternity wing of the hospital and had my wife rest in bed. We were told that they wanted to have us wait for a while to see if our son would drop into position on his own, otherwise they might have to induce labor. After a few hours, they determined that they were going to have to induce labor as my son had decided he didn't want to leave the warmth and comfort of the womb to enter the cold cruel world on the outside.
As they set everything up for the pitocin IV, they asked my wife if she wanted to have an epidural. She replied in the affirmative. Shortly after the IV began, she started to have some contractions. However, they must have set the initial drip too high as she started to have contractions that were much too quick and much too hard. They slowed the drip down to a more manageable level. My wife was even able to get a few hours sleep, but I was too keyed up to get any rest.
As evening rolled around, it was time to get serious about the delivery. Finally, my wife was suitably dilated and was ready to enter the pushing stage. I did my best to try to be a supportive helper during the delivery. Like Bill Cosby, I was the cheerleader, "Push him out, shove him out, way out!" In spite of our requests to not have anybody come up to the hospital since we did not know how long we would be, my entire family was in the waiting room. Finally, around 9pm, our son came into the world.
The entire time that my wife was pregnant, we did not want to know the sex of our baby. Every sonogram, they asked if we wanted to know, each time we said no. I honestly did not care if we had a boy or a girl at the time. We had names picked out for either event. Our baby's bedroom was painted light green with teddy bears to be gender neutral. However, I confess, that when the doctor told us we had a baby boy, my chest stuck out a little further than I anticipated.
After he was cleaned up and my wife was able to rest a bit, my family came in to see us. My son was the first grandchild of my parents. After they left, I visited a bit with my wife and son until she was ready to go to sleep. I headed home and stopped by Grace's Fortune in Bowie to pick up an order of Kung Pao Chicken. Exhausted, I hit the bed and slept. I have been exhausted ever since, but it has been worth it.
Related articles
- Happy Father's Day! Top 10: Greatest movie dads [SLIDESHOW] (dailycaller.com)
- Father's Day Songs: A Spotify Playlist About Fatherhood For Dad (huffingtonpost.com)
- Father's Day: The 10 Most Kick-Ass Movie Dads (screenrant.com)
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